I shared last week that we would be talking about prayer this week. I was not sure how things would go, but I was certain we needed to do some discipling along the lines of prayer. Imagine my surprise, though, when I showed up at Wrestling with Faith and we ended up in 30-40 minute discussion about prayer. Btw—consider this your commercial and invitation regarding Wrestling with Faith. Jim and Robert ostensibly are in charge of herding the cats that come to that group and deciding the topics. Usually, there is wine and snacks. This week we shared Cheez-its! You can tell, it’s a very typical high-brow gathering.
One of the
participants started us off on a discussion about prayer. That led to other participants discussing
what they thought about prayer. There
are those in the world around us who view prayer as a vending machine of
sort. We pray to God to fix or provide
or do something and hope He does what we ask.
Others make it a bit more in line with the prosperity gospel and believe
the formula and posture and our faith are what is responsible for God answering
our prayers the way we want. This has
crept into some of our understandings regarding prayer. The week and a half before I left for
vacation, I had a number of conversations with Adventers over the failed
intercessions for Penelope. Some
Adventers truly believed they or we prayed wrong, that our collective or their
individual faith was wanting, or that we or they had somehow done something wrong
to cause God not to save her.
Heck, to outsiders, pray is often
worthless. You want to enrage
non-believers in your life? Next time
something happens to them, tell them your thoughts and prayers are with
them. In some circles, the “thoughts and
prayers” are now perceived the Christian version of FU, because so many
Christians are perceived not to care about the human suffering around them or,
worse, think God wants bad things to happen to us to teach us lessons.
If I asked
you to define prayer this morning, my guess is that everyone would start off
quickly and strong. But after a few
minutes, we might start to become less confident. Some of us would confidently describe
intercessory prayer, but then remember there are prayers of thanksgiving and
prayers of confession, to name a few others.
If I asked if prayer could change God’s mind, we would likely have
different answers, depending on our familiarity with some of the Bible stories
like Abraham interceding on behalf of Sodom and Gomorrah today or like Moses
interceding on behalf of Israel or the response to Jonah’s preaching in
Nineveh. If I asked you who prayer was
really for, many would say us. We
recognize that prayer often changes us in ways we least expect.
Some of us,
emboldened by Abraham’s example today, might declare that prayer is a
conversation with God. I see some
nods. In truth, I am not sure that today
is as much a conversation as it is an intercession and wrestling with God. That brings me to another commercial for
Jim’s and Robert’s effort on those Thursday nights. I am asked a lot why I tolerate a group that
wrestles with faith and God and the Church.
Hopefully, Jim and Robert would both tell you that I do not tolerate
it. I encouraged them when they first
started talking about launching this group.
It is in our spiritual DNA, we might say, to wrestle with God or to
contend with God. The name Israel was
originally thought to mean wrestling with and contending with God. Much of Sarah’s and Abraham’s walk with God
is a contention. How can we have a
child when we are so old? How can God
fulfill His promises to us given our age?
By the time of Jacob’s generation, things are still unclear. The family is grossly outnumbered by the
Canaanites in the Land. Jacob literally
wrestles with God until God pops Jacob’s hip out of socket. Our list of those who wrestle with God could
go on and on all the way down to us, which is why I think that group is worth
having around Advent. Of course, it’s
better than just tolerating the group.
The questions asked in the group have been asked throughout human
history and the life of the Church. My
big purpose when I go to the meetings is to remind people the questions are not
new and how God has answered them, kind of like a sermon or a Bible Study!
All of
which brings us to this question of prayer.
Hopefully we all see in Luke that this desire to pray and the human
worry about prayer is nothing new.
Jesus’ disciples ask Him how to pray, after He has been praying in a
certain place. The question makes
sense. Their Master does it. They should also be doing it. And in the Jewish culture, rabbis and other
important figures taught their students or disciples how to pray. You see this in their question today. “Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his
disciples.” In fact, there is a great
“rule of life” called the Eighteen Benedictions, which faithful Jews were
expected to pray daily around the time of Jesus’ Incarnation.
What Jesus
answers them with has been passed down through the Church as the Lord’s
Prayer. It should be the Disciple’s
Prayer, as we are all supposed to pray it, but we name it after the One who
taught all His disciples to pray it. We
are all very familiar with it. In some
contexts, it is known as the Our Father prayer, but we Episcopalians know the
prayer well. We pray it during the Daily
Office, and we pray it when we celebrate the Eucharist. The version that Luke records, though, is not
the version you and I use in our daily and weekly prayer life.
Before I
talk about Luke’s version, I need to do some vaccinating so you don’t fall
victim to sophists or wolves in sheep’s clothing. As Anglicans/Episcopalians, we believe that
each of the books that are contained in the Bible are God-breathed. Yes, they are written by human beings, but at
the urging and inspiration of God. Then,
the Holy Spirit caused the Church to collect those writings She perceived as
God-breathed. It sounds very loose, but
the Church did not fight much about which books to keep and which books to
reject. There was very little fighting
over the Gospels, in particular, even though we have more than 400 writings
claiming to be Gospel.
For our
part, the Tradition has always taught and maintained that Luke, a Gentile
physician and secretary for Paul, interviewed those in the early Church about
Jesus and the events in the early Church before he penned his letters to
Theophilus, one who loves God! Though
the other Gospels contain lots of healing miracles, Luke has a particular focus
on them, which we all understand given his day job! But, we can all well imagine Luke’s
interviews and what stuck with him as being important to share. His version of the Lord’s Prayer is no less
authoritative or Gospel than the versions with which all of us are
familiar. Does Luke speak in more economic
than theological terms? Absolutely. Does it seem to capture the teaching of
Jesus? Yes!
The biggest
difference in the prayers is the focus on trespasses/sins in the prayers of the
other Gospel writers. You and I inherit
a nearly 2000 year old tradition which links trespasses and sins. We know Jesus is teaching us to ask God to
forgive us as we forgive others. It’s a
bit of a double-edged sword, though. If
we are not forgiving to others, how do we want God to treat us? That’s right, squirm a bit. Some of us in our heads are no doubt saying But
that person REALLY hurt me. As if
our sins don’t REALLY hurt God or REALLY hurt others.
Luke,
though, in recording this prayer, focuses on an economic issue. Forgive us our sins as we forgive the debts
of others. In Luke’s version, which he
heard from disciples and apostles, there is a link between sins and debts. Why?
Part of the reason is the illustration.
Sin often seems abstract, right?
If you found yourself arguing with me or God in your head or heart
because the sins against you really hurt but your sins were not so bad, you
understand the need for more concrete examples.
What is more concrete than debt?
I do not
spend too much time talking about the poverty of the ancient world. I did when we took part in the CARES work,
but I need to do it more. Oh, I hint at
it: people only ate meat once or twice a year, an oxen cost as year’s wages,
most people never saw a gold talent, and things like that. But I do not spend much time focusing your
attention on the abject poverty and struggle to survive. I should.
Maybe if I did a better job of teaching about the poverty of the ANE, we
would be more attuned to the poverty and struggle in our midst? I get it.
It’s hard to understand. We live
in a blessed part of a blessed nation. There
was a study about the time I moved to Advent which pointed out that 97% of the
world lived on less than $25000 a year.
Can you imagine? How about this:
Can you imagine living in Brentwood on less than $25000 a year? Already, all of us gathered here are in the
top 3% of the world. We live among the
most millionaires per capita in this blessed country. It makes it tough for us to understand
poverty and debt.
The problem
with debt, as Jesus teaches us, is that it enslaves us. Too many people try to live above their
means. This neighborhood is full of
people who bought houses they cannot afford, especially with rising interest
rates. Too many people bought fancier
cars they cannot afford. I have had
discussion after discussion with those who were taught to “fake it til you make
it.” Some were taught by bosses and
coworkers; others were taught by family.
And they live a life that, to them, is one paycheck away from ruin. The pressure and anxiety are intense. In the 7 ½ years I have been here, the
neighborhood has transitioned from marijuana to opioids to fentanyl. When I arrived, the numbing agent of choice
was dope. Now, it is a drug so powerful
that one grain will leave me high for 8 hours and three grains will likely kill
me! People work to pay the bankers, not
for any quality of life. But they have
not figured that out. Why? Why are people turning to stronger and
stronger drugs? Why do some come and
talk to me about their choices, their pressure, their overwhelming sense of
anxiety? They bought the American Dream
and discovered it is really a nightmare, especially when held up against the
kingdom of God!
And let’s
talk credit cards. Anybody have children
or grandchildren who were offered credit cards with high limits while in
college? I see the nods. Some of us are of an age that we experienced
that “bonus” of education. Credit card
debt is so normalized now that most households carry more than $30,000 in debt monthly. Y’all are smart, but you likely know people
carrying ridiculous amounts of credit card debt, and those wonderfully low
interest rates. And we think nothing of
it. It’s just the cost of living.
Know
anybody with medical debt? How about
student loans? Are you getting the
picture why Jesus focused on economic issues, when He taught His disciples how
to pray? The economic issues easily
translate into theological issues, but they also remind us that God cares about
our daily life and work and play.
Though it
is not in the version that Luke gives us, one of the prayers in the Lord’s
Prayer that has survived 2000 years is the “Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.” Those
teaching Luke about the Lord’s Prayer would likely have pointed out how our
treatment of debt points to how we want God to treat our sins. Imagine, if you will, someone whose medical
bills are retired, or whose utilities are paid, or whose credit card debt is
wiped out. We see those stories from
time to time. Churches buy debt and
forgive it. It’s always good for a news
cycle locally. But then cynicism sets
in. What good does it do for them to
forgive the debt? They are just going to
accumulate more!
Of course
they are. Our society is based on debt
enslavement. Every moment of every day
they, and we, are bombarded with advertisements to buy things. And if you do not have enough money, some of
those advertisements point out that financing is available. Better financing is available for those with
better credit scores, but the business world will bend over backwards to get us
all paying them each month. And make NO
mistake, it is slavery. We are
dehumanized and just profit centers for them.
We are known by our account numbers and not our circumstances. Each of those in our neighborhood who are
over-extended have done well by absolute measures. Nearly all make a great income; most feel
they are important to their company’s success; and most have a marketable skill
or expertise. But they know! They know what happens if they miss a
payment. The clock starts ticking on
repossession and foreclosure the moment they miss a payment. If credit scores measured skills and desire
and success, there would be no issue.
Successful people usually find good jobs. They pay their bills. But we treat even them as a commodity. Pretend now you have no skills, no value in
your own eyes.
But imagine
a world where Christians took Jesus’ teaching seriously. What if we forgave debts as readily as we
asked God to forgive us our sins? What
would the world begin to understand about us?
About God? And about true
freedom? Some of you gather with me two
or three times in corporate worship where we ask God to forgive us our
sins. Some of you do the Daily Offices
where we ask God individually to forgive our sins. Do we really sin that much? Yes.
We sin about as often as people live in debt, which is to say nearly all
the time.
And, lest
you think I am wrong defending Luke for his version of the Lord’s Prayer that
he recorded, what is the example right after the prayer that Jesus uses to
drive the point home? We live in a world
that is walled off now. We live in
mcmansions with garages and privacy fences.
The days of sitting on porch swings with our neighbors sipping tea or
Arnold Palmers is long passed. But in
that culture at that time, hospitality and neighborly behavior were
esteemed. Valued. Honored.
The man
goes to his neighbor because a traveller has dropped in unexpectedly. The man needs some food to care for the
unexpected visitor. So he goes to his
FRIEND for help. He goes to his FRIEND
to help him fulfill his obligations, just as his FRIEND has come to him for
assistance at times in their relationship.
We understand the friend’s reticence to get out of bed, some of us more
than others, right? None of us like to
be bothered once we have all turned in for the night. But we know emergencies happen. How should we respond to emergencies? How should we respond to emergencies
involving our friends? How should we
respond to emergencies belonging to our friends who have responded to our own
emergencies? See the relationship
described by Jesus. See why FRIEND is an
important description?
Jesus says
that because of his anaideia, the FRIEND will eventually get up and help
the man. Our translators rendered the
word as “persistence” today, but that entirely misses the point. Anaideia was the companion of Hybris, for
those of us who studied Greek mythology.
Both were close companions in Greek mythology. Anaideia has the sense of shamelessness. My books are still boxed, but I cannot think
of a time in Antiquity when the word is used in the sense of nagging or
persistence. It has a quality of not
accepting shame or humiliation. Why does
Jesus use that word? Why did that word
stick in the minds of so many who heard Him teach? Because the man knows the relationship with
his FRIEND. The man knows how many times
he has bailed his friend out. He knows
their relationship. Heck, he knows the
behaviors of his friend. And his friend
knows him as well. They have a history
together. They are really friends living
in the same culture, so they both know how this will end. The FRIEND knows the man will take his
obligations of hospitality seriously.
The FRIEND knows the man knows they are friends. There will be only one way to end the beating
on the door and allow everyone to sleep.
The friendship means there is no shame in the behavior; there is no
reason for the FRIEND really not to fulfill the request of the man.
You and I
are encouraged by Jesus to approach God shamelessly. We are supposed to know we are loved by God,
redeemed by God, treasured by God. We
are supposed to understand that we are in a relationship with Him and He with
us. What should we not share with
Him? From Jesus’ perspective, absolutely
nothing! If He knows the secret sins and
hairs on our heads and our hearts and desires, if He formed us in the wombs of
our mothers, He knows everything already.
And, yet, He is willing to listen to us; He is willing to engage in
conversation with us; He is willing to let us contend or wrestle with Him. Better still, we can depend on His
answers. Jesus goes on to remind us that
we, who are evil—who sin all the time, do not give snakes or scorpions to our
children. If we, who are evil, can
figure that out, how much more so will our Father in heaven? But, in the end, it all comes back to time
and understanding our relationship with Him.
Make no
mistake, my friends, Jesus knew what He was doing when He taught His disciples
this way. We might balk at knowing our
Father, when society and some men teach us over and over that fathers are
unnecessary. We might listen to Satan’s
whispers that our Father does not really have time for us or want to listen to
us. We might even be persuaded that we
should always feel shame. But it is God’s
Son, the One who died and rose again and ascended into heaven, who teaches us
these truths, even one so easy as how to pray.
And reminded of those truths, fortified by the encouragement of this
Sacrament, encouraged by our brothers and sisters in this community, we are
sent back out to do the work He has given us to do. But we are not like those who grope in
darkness or choose evil over God. We are
reminded we are His children, encouraged to engage in that relationship to
which He calls us, and we wonderfully freed and prepared for any work He has
given us to do in our lives because He is with each one of us, no matter what
the world wants us to believe! Reminded
and fortified, you and I are sent back out there, into the darkness and the
wilderness, to incarnate His love for all humanity in our lives, inviting them
each to experience for themselves the love He has for them, the desire He has
for them, to enter into relationship with Him!
In Christ’s Peace,
Brian†