Before I get started, I will apologize that the sermon is not as connected to life around Advent as normal. Those at 8am reassured me it was different, but good, but we all acknowledged it misses some of the normal applicable illustrations. Those visiting are probably wondering what is going on. The preacher is telling us his sermon is not as good as normal? His members criticize his sermons? I have been on vacation for the last three weeks, well for two weeks it was a vacation. The place where we stay in Maine has no dependable internet access, and we simply did not bother even to turn on the television. So when I say I was unplugged, I mean I was tuned out of the world eating seafood and ice cream.
For my
part, my time back has been far more focused on pastoral care. I’ll talk more about that in announcements,
and I promise it will all make sense.
But as they say, my mind, since my return, has been focused on other
things.
Speaking of
the two weeks one week, I do bring greeting from the Vestry and people of St.
Mark’s Berkeley Springs, WV. Once
Michelle found out I would be in town visiting my dad on the way home, she
reached out to see if I would celebrate a Eucharist for them. This was their first Eucharist this calendar
year. Y’all had two weeks of Morning
Prayer, so you can more easily imagine the hunger and thirst for the Eucharist better. But imagine getting only two Eucharists a
year. Like many rural parishes across
our country, it is an unfortunately common experience. They are very grateful you don’t make me rush
home to celebrate another Eucharist.
Thank you
also for allowing Rev. Funmi an opportunity to officiate and preach without too
much hazing. Given the way things worked
out timing wise, this was tossing her into the deep end, but everybody seems
mostly to have behaved themselves. So I
am thankful to find her still willing to serve today!
Our reading
from the Old Testament is known among our Hebrew friends as the toledot
of Isaac. It is the generations or
descendants or offspring of Isaac. Those
who paid attention to my sermon on the birth of Isaac in the age before my
recent vacation will remember that Isaac’s name means laughter or laughing, as
in Sarai and Abram have a baby at ages 99 and 100, respectively. To put it in our vernacular, Stuart and
Phocian would both have to wait a few more years before they were forced to
change diapers and care for an infant.
Do not worry, ladies, I am not stupid enough to try and figure out which
of you is closest to Sarai in age. As
far as I am concerned it will be decades for each of you! Those of you laughing at all this understand
why Sarai chose the name for her son.
Can you imagine? I’m in my mid 50’s
and I cringe. How would one get down on
the floor to play with a child? I guess
the real problem would be getting up, right?
Those who
pay attention to the story will notice some similarities to the story of Abram
and Sarai. That brings me to the
commercial break. In Sunday morning
Bible study Larry has us watching movies on the patriarchs and matriarchs. They are well-written, well-acted, and
faithful to the Scriptures. Ted Turner
was clearly atoning for something. If
you like watching movies or videos better than reading, and you like learning
about the Bible and the ANE, join us.
Now, back
to our programming. One of the first
things you will notice is the fact that God does not bless Isaac and Rachel
with a child for a long time. Remember
how Abram and Sarai had to wait 26 years for God’s promise of a child? Isaac and Rachel have to wait only 20
years. That means she has had to live
with the same whispers as her mother-in-law for nearly two decades. That means Isaac has had to listen to the
same loving counsel to put aside his wife, much like his father heard for 26 years. Our Sunday morning movie captured that very
well.
We do not
know if it took Isaac 20 years to intercede.
Maybe the two of them were trying all the “helpful” advice about conceiving
a child from others in their family. We
have a lot of medical folks at Advent, but no fertility specialists. I am sure, nevertheless, that our doctors and
nurses have heard crazy stories from patients.
I have heard nutty thing from fertility doctors over the years, so I
know how well-meaning but horribly wrong advice can be sincerely given and tried.
Maybe God was teaching the holy family
the value of persistent prayer? Scripture simply does not tell us why God
answers this prayer of Isaac. It tells
us simply that Isaac interceded with God on behalf of his wife. Isaac’s concern was for Rachel, not
himself. So his prayer, his conversation
with God, is a bit different than that of his father.
As is so
often the case, we need to be careful what we pray for. I guess as Episcopalians we would say that we
serve a God who does more than we can ask or imagine. God blesses Rachel with twins. Quickly, though, this blessing begins to
cause problems. The twins are never
resting. Rachel complains that they are
always wrestling in her womb. Her
discomfort gets so bad that she inquires of God to find out why the twins are
so restless.
God tells
her that two nations are in conflict in her womb. This revelation will serve for many of God’s
people as an instruction as to why the descendants of Esau and the descendants
of Jacob are always fighting. So much of
genealogies instruct us that these geo-political conflicts are really family
squabbles. It explains, in part, why
they go on and on and on and why they are so bitter. Can anyone fight better or harder or longer
than siblings? I see a few knowing nods. God reminds His people, which means us, that
we all share common ancestry. On some
level, we are all family. But in this
case, they are much close family.
Notice,
too, God’s declaration about the older serving the younger. As we work through the story this summer, or
some of us watch the movies, we will be uncomfortable at the blatant favoritism
shown Jacob by Rachel, the mother of both Esau and Jacob. We live in a world that values fairness. We cringe when we see her plotting to help
Jacob because in her plotting to help Jacob, she is plotting to hurt Esau. Before we judge her too quickly, though, how
would you respond if God told you He had great plans for one of your
children? Would you not likely not pay
closer attention to the one that God has favored? We would all still love all our kids, I have
no doubt, but I bet most of us would pay extra attention to the one singled out
by God.
The boys
are born and named Esau and Jacob, for the red hair and grabbing of the
heel. Then, we skip to young adult
twins. Esau comes back from a day out
hunting and is starving to death.
Understand, Esau is not literally starving. His father is the richest man in the area. As the first born son, Esau is destined to
become the richest man upon the death of his father, now Abraham. Esau has been out hunting and has had no
luck. The text makes it clear he is exaggerating
his hunger. If he ended up not eating this
day, he would still live. But like most
of us, he likes to satisfy his desires immediately. He is hungry.
And Jacob has made some good-looking stew, red stuff. So he tells his brother to give him some.
Jacob says
not so fast. He tells Esau he can have
the stew if he will give him his birthright.
Esau is famished and does not see any value in a birthright, and so he
makes the deal. From that time forward,
Esau will be described in Scripture, and in our reading today, as one who
despised his birthright. It might seem a
harsh judgment to our ears, but is it?
Esau has grown up hearing the stories from grandma and grandpa, mom and
dad, and others in the holy family. Like
his brother Jacob, he should value his birthright. He should be the inheritor of the Covenant,
but he is willing to trade it for some stew.
As the knight says in Indiana Jones every time I watch it at the grail
scene, he chose poorly.
Our story
today contains several important lessons to which I want to draw your
attentions. First, consider the lesson
on patience or perseverance. We live in
an age where we get things our way, almost immediately. Everything from food to major purchases can
be done rather quickly. As a result, we
have lost the virtues of patience and perseverance. We, the people of God, forgot that time is
yet another creation of God, that we are called to be stewards of it just like
the rest of His creation. The culture
around us beats on us and hammers us with the idea we need always to be in a
hurry or rushed. We cannot afford to eat
a sit down meal with family. We cannot
afford to wait too many minutes to receive our food at a restaurant. Our time is too valuable, and we need to
remind the servers of that truth, right?
And heaven forbid you lack money for a weekend trip or major purchase. Credit cards are there for a reason,
right? Notice in just two easy examples
how we, and those around us, become enslaved to our flesh, to use Paul’s words
this morning, or enslaved to those who hold our debts.
God, for His
part, has a great reminder for us today.
He is the Creator of all this is, seen and unseen. He can dd whatever He wants whenever He
chooses to do it. A few minutes ago we
were all placing ourselves in Sarai’s and Abram’s places. Well, we were trying to. What would it really be like to have a child
at their ages? As the Scripture made
clear when we read that story in June, what would it be like to be able to have
all the plumbing working to have the possibility of a child? Quit squirming. Don’t be prudes. Sarai names Isaac Isaac in part because she
knows people are going to laugh at her and her husband knowingly. And she shares in that laughter, in that joy. She, who gave her husband Hagar the handmaid
as a solution to God’s inability to keep His promise, learns first hand that
nothing, not even old age or faulty plumbing, can thwart God’s will.
The next
lesson I want to point out today is our impotence. It would be better had you all heard my
sermon on Isaiah last week at St. Mark’s, but you should have some
understanding of the fact that we are insufficient for far too many things in
our lives. We like to think that hard
work or brilliance or any number of other activities or qualities enable us to
overcome life’s problems. Scripture, for
its part, is most concerned with our inability to get back to God in the garden
because of our sin. How do we learn to
trust God? How can a sinful human being
be restored to a holy God? Most of us
gathered here today understand our need for Jesus’ faith, for His willingness
to go to the Cross, for His trust in the Father’s goodness, for us to be
restored to God, at least on some level.
But notice how much in life is beyond our power, our intelligence, our
hard work, our whatever. Who can stop
wars? Who can stop droughts? Who can end slavery? Who can end infertility? The list of our insufficiency goes on and
on. But we are reminded today in this
story that God can. More importantly, we
are reminded that God has the will or desire to do away with all evil even as
He uses evil for His own purposes. Do
any of us think that Sarai had any idea that people in Nashville would be laughing
with her at her newborn predicament some 4000 years later? Do any of us think that Esau had any idea we
would be talking about his foolish choices even as we remember his re-embrace
of his conartist brother in a couple decades?
But these stories were caused to written by God to instruct us, to reveal
to us, these characteristics of God. In
this case, we are taught that His redemptive power is sufficient for all
things, even things the world says is impossible.
Related to
that power, though, is another important lesson. Though we are only starting the third
generation of the holy family, we have learned how God works on the
margins. He is always in the business of
drawing those on the fringes into His embrace, into the community of His
people. Part of why we invite the food
insecure into our midst is because we have learned, we have internally digested
if I might make a pun of sorts, the certainty that such is always the work of
God. Those whom society ignores are the
very people whom God seeks. And God
often uses the insignificant in society’s eyes to accomplish great things. The best reminder, of course, is Jesus. He had nothing remarkable about Him, from the
eyes of society. He was not famously
handsome or chiseled. He was not born
into power in a palace. Heck, He was
expected to be a tradesman. But
Scripture is full of other examples of a nobody in the world’s eyes being a
somebody in God’s eyes and a glorious example of His redemptive grace in our
eyes, beginning with Abram and Sarai and their long trek to the Promised Land.
Another
important lesson is the detail to which God is paying attention. I will let you all in on a little
secret. When you come into my office
complaining about your family, and I tell you to go read something between
Genesis 12 and 49 or so, it’s because the holy family experienced your same
dysfunction. Nothing with which you struggle
in families is not present in the holy family.
And I can always tell who read the story and who did not. The Adventer who did not read the story gives
me skubala-filled answers about how the lesson was encouraging. The Adventer who read the story is shocked to
learn that the author of Ecclesiastes was right, there truly is nothing new
under the sun. And I usually have to
remind the latter Adventer that the story they read was about the holy family,
about Jesus’ great-great-great however many times grandfather or uncle or
mother or whatever. God is keenly aware
of our dysfunction and is still willing to use us for His glory, if we are
willing to let Him.
There’s one
last lesson to which I want to draw your attention. It might be the most important on this day
since we are celebrating the baptism of Mara today. In celebrating her baptism, though, we should
all be reminded of our own baptisms and the consequences of the covenant that
God makes with each one of us, despite our insignificance and despite our
dysfunctions. I began this sermon by
naming this the generations or descendants of Isaac. The word was toledot. Good.
Some of you have not fallen asleep!
The focus
in Scripture shifts from the relationship of God with Abraham to His
relationship with the descendants of Isaac.
Being a human family, some in the holy family make some seriously stupid
or unwise choices, just like Esau today.
But through this family and despite their dysfunction and horrible
choices, God will work His plan of salvation.
We know, of course, that His plan of salvation is fulfilled in the life,
death, resurrection, and ascension of Jesus, the ultimate Seed of God’s promise
to Abraham and to Sarah. But as is so
often the case, the Good News is even better than we first imagine.
Today,
Robyn and Patrick will make a pledge to God in front of us and Him that they
will raise Mara to know God, to instruct her in His redeeming love, and to help
her turn away from all those things which lead her from God. It is a weighty promise, to say the
least. She is their firstborn
child. How many mistakes have they
already made? How will they shepherd her
through her toddler years, when she seems intent upon giving mom and dad lots
of grey hairs? How will they get her
through the willful years we call teenage?
How can they fight social media?
How can they overcome her friends who do not share the same values? What if there are drunk drivers or speeding
drivers? What if there are natural
disasters? What if they are given
another child? You are laughing, and
rightfully so, many of us were too stupid to understand the responsibilities of
parenthood when we became parents. And
we got so focused on washing bottles or pacifiers to keep dirt out of our kids’
mouths that we missed the real dangers, those things which caused us to realize
the responsibility God had given each of us in the care and instruction of that
beloved daughter or son.
For their
part, Donald and Caitlin will vow to do the same. As Godparents, their job is to support
Patrick and Robyn in their efforts to raise Mara to know just how beloved she
is of God. It sounds easy in our ears. They are the support. The back up.
How many of us, though, had effective Godparents in our lives? How many of us were effective Godparents in the
lives of our Godchildren?
We, of
course, will all vow to God to do all in our power to support young Mara, and Robyn
and Patrick, in their lives in Christ. We
will vow to celebrate with them, mourn with them, struggle with them, pray with
and for them, that God’s purposes for young Mara will be fulfilled, and that
she will grow into the full stature as a beloved daughter, a princess, of God.
All these
vows, though sincere, as with all things human, will fail. And it is there that we all will do the truly
heaving lifting of discipling and catechesis.
When we fail, we will repent and return to God, modeling to little Mara
the true life of a disciple, the life of one who gives thanks to God for the saving
faith of Jesus, for His willingness to do the hard work that we could not do to
save ourselves or others.
It is in
that living, day by day, week by week, month by month, year by year, that we
will become a testimony and example to Mara of God’s unfailing promises to each
of His children. By virtue of all our baptisms,
we are grafted into the descendants of Isaac!
The stories about which we read this week become our stories. The promises which God makes to these
individuals that we read about each week become the same promises that He makes
to each one of us. And that redemptive
power about which we read becomes our glorious inheritance. Because we are part of the holy family,
because we know God loves and wills to redeem us, we can depend upon Him to see
us through the trials of this life. And
though events in this life may not go the way we would like, we know that one
glorious Day, all our struggles, all our failures, all our hurts will be washed
away as we sit at the lap of our Father who loves each one of us dearly.
And as a
people generated from Isaac, we become a people of laughter and of joy! We become a people who know what it is to be
loved, to be in community with others who are loved and love, and to know the
freedom of having been redeemed. We
become a people who give true joyful thanksgiving. We become a people who get to invite others
to share in that love and freedom, to experience the same joy and wonder as we
have known, and to reserve a place at that Marriage Feast where the food, the
drink, and the dancing are prepared for those who love Him and accept His
calling on their lives! Perhaps best of
all, His story of redemption becomes our story, and our story becomes part of
His story. God takes each one of us who
comes to Him in faith in baptism and promises to redeem us and to use us as He
woos all in the world to choose Him! It
is a heady promise, to be sure. It is a
weighty responsibility, to be sure. But
because Christ has done the hard and weighty work, we are assured of God’s
ability to keep that promise He makes to Mara this day just as He promised to
each one of us however long ago!
In His Peace!