Wednesday, September 4, 2019

On dinner parties, humility, and being exalted . . .


     This week, I really annoyed one of my sermon prep colleagues.  As many of you know, I belong to a couple groups where we talk shop.  Unsurprisingly, one of those places we talk shop is in sermon preparation.  It’s a fun group.  We share what we are preaching on and sermon illustrations, or sometimes we ask for illustrations when we have brain freeze.  I was, unfortunately, late to the party this week due to pastoral considerations.  By the time I got to where I could begin to think about this week’s sermon, my favorite group had covered all the rabbit holes.  I learned, for example, there are parabologists.  People get PhD’s as experts in parables.  This is a real thing.  Apparently, one can be an expert in the parables of Luke, the parables of Matthew, the parables of Mark, or just of parables in general.  That was an important discussion because the teaching today is the subject of much discussion among parabologists.
     It’s not really germane to my sermon, but think of your favorite parable.  It is generally told by Jesus in the third person.  Why?  It’s so our perspective can change as our walk with God changes, right?  Think of the parable of the Prodigal Son.  What will be a teaching on that parable?  Great, forgiveness.  What if I announced today I was preaching on the parable of the Loving Father?  What will be the likely subject of that sermon?  That’s right, our loving Father in heaven pursuing and wooing us.  You guys are sharp today.  What if, instead, I said I was preaching on the Ungrateful Older Brother.  What would be the subject of my sermon?  Exactly.  Grace-hoarding or something like that.
     See.  Y’all are parabologists.  You understand that the parables are stories that invite us to take on the perspective of one of the characters to help teach us and others about God and about human beings, especially ourselves.  All three titles speak to the same parable taught by Jesus.  All the details are identical.  It’s just that our focus, our attention, can change, even as our walk with God changes.
     I share that rabbit trail with you because a number of experts, apparently, argue that this teaching in Luke today is not a parable at all.  Chiefly, the argument seems to be that Jesus teaches in the second person, you, rather than in the third person, there was a man or there was a woman.  In other words, it’s very pointed to us, the audience.  It’s more like tutoring than like an invitation to learn.  The problem with that line of thinking is that Luke introduces the teaching in verse seven as a parable.  Now, did Jesus teach this lesson in a parable and Luke wrote down his own engagement with that direct teaching?  I doubt it, but it’s possible.  Does it matter?  In the end, I would say no.  It’s the kind of things about which academics argue, just like the number of angels dancing on the head of a pin, but those of us trying to live our faith with integrity really could care less about.
     Of course, one of my colleagues came across a theologian who was very disappointed in this teaching of this lesson.  All Jesus is doing, according to this particular writer, is teaching us table manners and giving us good, solid advice for daily living.  From this writer’s perspective, there was no theological perspective that made this event particularly applicable in the daily life and work of readers.  That drove my colleague nuts.  How could the professional not see the eschatological perspective that was self-evident?  You can well imagine that thread and the accompanying rabbit trails!  Of course, my colleagues were struggling with modern sermon illustrations which illustrated their contention that this is, indeed, a theological teaching.  That, it turned out, was my only contribution to a number of sermons this week.
     I should also note, before I begin, I see the irony at play.  As y’all can tell by the grouping of the readings, we should be focusing on humility.  We are not to be full of pride, at all.  But, I was also chewed out this past week by three families giving consideration to joining us formally.  Each of the families is a blended family.  Well, the adults are.  Somehow, someway, neither Adventers nor me may have mentioned to them during their visits my work for the Pope and Archbishop of Canterbury.  For those adults who are faithful Roman Catholics, such mentioning may have lowered their anxieties about joining our parish.  A couple, in fact, suggested that I lead with that in my introductions.  So, on a week when I am supposed to teach us to be humble, some may hear a brag.  I guess we would say that’s God having a jest with us?
     Anyway, some five years ago, a cardinal was interviewed by the local big paper in Rome.  Those of you who do not know how the Roman church works, cardinals are assigned parishes in Rome.  They are sort of living patrons of those local parishes.  When they are in town, they are expected to preach and celebrate at the parish.  It is their connection to the local populace.  And, when they are in town, they are all working to become the next Pope.  This particular gentleman was giving out coins in front of his parish as Archbishop David and our group walked by his church – that’s how I got all the background information.  Much like every US Senator thinks he or she could be the next US President, every Cardinal seems to think he should be the next Pope.  This man was giving out coins, David admitted he was being a bit cynical, because he wanted the groundswell of popular support to cause other cardinals to vote for him.
     Now, remember, this was five years ago.  Francis was beloved by the Progressive wing of the Roman church and distrusted by the Conservative wing of the Roman church.  In this interview, the good cardinal was pushing back against the Pope’s new policies.  The Holy Father expected them all to give up their wonderful homes and castles and live in mundane apartments.  The Holy Father expected them to give up their Mercedes and drive something like Fiats instead.  Heck, the Holy Father expected them to eat with the homeless and the starving!  Can you believe that?!  On that last part, the cardinal went on to complain about how bad homeless people smell.  One cannot enjoy a meal with such stink in the air.  The cardinal in question went on to say something along the lines that he could not wait for the Holy Father to grow into the office, that he become more Pope-like, and allow them the privileges of their offices.
     David shared with us that Pope Francis often got in trouble with the Swiss Guard.  In fact, he later shared that a commander or two had already resigned over the new Pope’s habits of not listening to his security—it’s like a President ignoring the Secret Service.  One of those habits that annoyed the Swiss Guard was Francis’ sneaking off in civi’s to help churches feed the homeless in St. Peter’s square!  Now, given that information, you might well imagine the Pope was not particularly sympathetic to this cardinal’s complaint.
     Shortly after I started here, and I’m talking weeks rather than months, the reporter noticed that new construction had begun on St. Peter’s.  His interviews with workers led him to believe bathrooms were being installed.  During a q & a session with the Pope for the paper, he asked about it, knowing that nothing happens in the Vatican without the Pope’s tacit, if not implicit, approval.  And St. Peter’s Square is more likely to require tacit approval as the Pope address the masses there all the time.
     The Pope mentioned to the reporter that he had read the article in the paper a couple months back that included the comments from his “brother bishop.”  As the Holy Father prayed over those comments, he realized his brother was correct.  It is hard, if one is homeless, to get cleaned up.  Businesses are not good about opening up their establishments for free.  Residential folk are not too keen on allowing the homeless to come in and clean up.  Most churches do not have showers in their facilities.  It pained him to think of the number of homeless people, aware and embarrassed by their predicament, who had no doubt been forced to decline his brother bishop’s invitation to dine.  No doubt they did not want to sit down to a meal with him without first cleaning up.  So, as a solution to the problem, the Pope had ordered public showers to be erected around St. Peter’s.  That way, the homeless could get cleaned up before going to his brother bishop’s meals and so spare him their smell and them any embarrassment.  In one fell swoop, the Holy Father both provided a necessary service for the needy in his community, and he ensured that the next Pope would NOT be the cardinal in question.
     Our lesson from Luke this week takes place at a meal on the sabbath.  The religious folk have their eye on Jesus because of the healings He has done on the sabbath, in clear violation of the torah from their perspective.  Those of you who attended our Maundy Thursday meal have seen this in person, but such meals would have had the tables arranged in a square “U”.  The host sat at the middle of the U.  The most important or honored guest sat to the host’s right.  The second most important or honored guest sat immediately to the host’s left.  The third was second to the right; the fourth was second to the left.  And so on.  The middle of the U was for servants and slaves to tend to the needs of the guests and the host.  Most of the ANE was very conscious of social status.  The Paris Hilton’s and Kim Kardashian’s of the modern world are amateurs at such things.
     When one was invited to such a feast, a great deal of energy was spent determining where one sat.  One could always try and sneak a bit closer to the front, but one ran the risk of overstepping one’s bounds.  Plus, host’s would invite a few people from above their social status.  The hope was that the more famous person would attend, thereby improving the significance and standing of the host’s party, or, if worse came to worse, ensuring that one might get a future invitation to that higher guest’s dinner party.  Imagine today if you went to a party and Garth Brooks or Taylor Swift showed up.  If you were the host, how much would you be hoping you’d get invited to a future event of theirs?  But how famous would you be in your own social circle if they attended your event?  Get it?  Now, we are amateurs at such things.  The ANE folk, and Romans in particular, were professionals on steroids when it came to honor and social status!  The folk that we think thrive in this kind of environment would have been devoured in that one!
     Jesus is at one such meal and, as is typical for Jesus, he observes and uses the everyday experience to teach His disciples and us.  On one level, His instruction is about table manners.  In the scene I described above, where we would spend time and energy trying to figure out the appropriate place to sit if we were invited, we would have to figure out how close to the host we could sit without causing offense to more important guests or the host.  If I sat at the 10th most important spot, but I was the 30th most important guest to the host, I ran the risk of experiencing the scene described initially by Jesus, where the host tells me to move down because so-and-so needs my seat.  I would experience the shame of having over-reached my status and having to be put in my place.  The whispers for the next few weeks would probably remind me of my mistake, and I would probably not be invited to a number of future feasts because I did not know my place.  But could I get away with sitting at the 25th most important seat?  The 22nd?  See the game?
     Jesus’ wisdom, on one level, speaks to that everyday problem.  Choose the least important seat.  If I sat at the least important seat, no one will make me move.  Nobody wants that seat!  One barely made the cutoff for the meal if one is assigned that seat!  I will not be perceived as haughty.  I will be known as one of those guests who knows his place and ensures future invitations.  But, if I am important to the host, what could happen?  The host may make me move closer to the front!  As dishonoring as the walk of shame was for the one asked to move down, imagine how power the walk of importance would be for one asked to move up!  Now the whispers would go the other way!  He’s such a nice guy he has no idea how important he is.  Can you imagine that Brian thought he should sit at the end of the table, as if he’s not one of Ralph’s favorite guys?!  See the difference?
     Jesus’ teaching does have practical application.  In this game of seeming infinite importance, Jesus has instructed His disciples how to win all the time.  Of course, Jesus has a different game and different perspective in mind, but we should not be surprised that being faithful, living as He did, in the small things points to an eschatological blessing that is seldom in our minds.
     One of the big questions I get asked constantly in private discussions is whether somebody is Christian enough.  Nobody panic, I will not be citing specific names.  People will come into my office and ask if they are Christian enough.  My answers usually frustrate them.  I, naturally, ask if they believe that Jesus is the Son of God, came down from heaven, died for their sins, was raised on the third day, ascended back to heaven, and will one day return to judge us.  If they answer yes, I tell them they are probably Christian enough.  The probably, as you might imagine, scares them.  I have to remind them that judging their salvation is above my paygrade.  The guy who hung on the Cross gets to decide who is in and who is out.  He sees the heart; I can only listen to the words and see the behavior.
     It’s at this point in such conversations that the person in question will begin to wonder whether they are “doing enough.”  As a pastor, I have to be careful.  We can never do enough to earn salvation—that’s the opposite of grace.  But sometimes, people are expressing a call or feeling of a call on their lives that they have been resisting.  So we have to work through what it is that the Adventer is really trying to say.  If God is calling us to something, and we are fleeing like Jonah, then, yes, we should feel guilty.  That’s part of why we pray for those things left undone.
     How might the humility in small things evidence themselves today, particularly for those of us whose social circles do not include fancy dinner parties?  Are we cussing out the lady in line in front of us at Publix who only begins to dig for her checkbook through a purse the size of a camping backpack after the cashier is finished ringing up her groceries, as if paying for the groceries is a new thing?  Are we quick to flash folks the universal sign of respect for their driving skill and efforts to cut us off on the roads of Nashville?  Do we avoid eye contact or people altogether when we think they may want to ask us something?  DO we participate in the office gossip?  Do we bully the kid at school?  There are lots of ways you and I can exhibit humility in everyday life.  There are lots of ways where we can follow the example of holy living set forth by our Lord Christ and teach others about Him without saying a word.
     And here’s the kicker!  What is Jesus’ promise?  If we had red letter Bibles like many of our friends and co-workers today, what would be in red letters?  Look at verse 11.  Who’s doing the real acting?  God.  Those who exalt themselves in this life will what?  That’s right!  Be humbled.  Be humbled by Whom?  Good.  You are paying attention.  God will humble.  But what will God do for those who humble themselves as His Son taught?  That’s right!  The Creator of heaven and earth, the Maker of all that is, seen and unseen, will exalt for all eternity those who humble themselves on earth!
     To use the image of the feast, God will tell us to move closer to the head of the Table.  Those who humbled themselves will get that walk of exaltation, of joy, of peace that knowing that God was well pleased with them!  Sitting here, you might wonder how big the Table is if every disciple gets exalted.  Truthfully, I have no idea.  I do not know how this exaltation works.  In the end, I know it does not matter much.  Whatever exaltation I might conceive and teach, God is going to swamp it by orders of magnitude.  I just know that He is promising to exalt those who live like His Son.  So, we can measure our own behavior if we are worried.  Am I loving others as I want to be loved?  Am I serving others to His glory?  Do I evidence to others the Peace that passes all understanding?  If we don’t, we know we have repentance and work to do.
     Jesus, of course, is not finished.  He has further instructions for those of means.  When they host parties, Jesus instructs them to invite those who cannot repay them.  I’ve already covered how folks invited others expecting invitations to their parties.  Jesus’ new instruction, of course, is double-edged.  Guess who never got invited to the good parties?  That’s right!  Those he specifically mentioned.  Some were perceived as accursed by God.  Some were simply ignored because they had nothing to offer potential hosts.  In that culture, in that time and that place, what would be the effect of such invitations on the one receiving the invitation?  That’s right!  They would know they were noticed.  How easy a step would it be to teach them, based on that experience, that God notices them, that God loves them?
     But what of the invitors?  What would be their lesson?  They’ve been given much?  Certainly.  That they can incarnate God’s grace in their lives?  That’s another good one.  Teach others about the grace of God?  Man, y’all are on point today!  There are lots of good lessons for those doing the inviting.
     What does Jesus promise them, if they do as He commands?  That’s right!  That they will be repaid in the resurrection of the righteous.  To use modern language, God will make sure they are reimbursed for the cost, be it financial, social, or other, at the resurrection of the righteous.  Whoa!  Think of that for just a second.  Jesus is promising, in red letters yet again, that God will cover the IOU’s of such extravagance lavished on the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind!
     I am sometimes asked by folks both within and without the parish if I am worried that people are ripping us off in our various ministries.  What if folks are reselling the food?  What if folks are misusing the toiletries?  What if the people you are helping do not really need your help?  What if they are not really addicted?  What if they are not really homeless?  First, I cannot see hearts.  I can only take people at their word.  If they are taking food or toiletries to resell them, that’s on them, not us.  Plus, it’s a lot of work for very little money.  But what of those whom we are called to help?  What is God doing in their lives, guiding them to us, meeting their needs.  What is our reward for that divine work?  That’s right.  He will repay at the resurrection of the righteous.  Will God write us a check and reimburse us for the food we bought?  I doubt it.  But He will repay.  It’s Jesus’ promise.  So, like a good humble group of servants, we serve, trusting that God will settle all accounts, both ours and theirs, whoever the theirs is, at His Second Coming!
     In one sense, it is incredibly easy work.  In another, it could not be more counter-cultural.  But it is the work He has given us to do, or so it seems to many of us at Advent, and so we pledge Him our best efforts just as He pledged His best, eternal efforts to us!
     At the beginning of the sermon, we talked a bit about parables and about table manners and practical lessons.  In some sense we chuckled, but I hope it was a chuckle that captured God’s sense of humor and sense of living.  Do things on the earth matter?  Yes and no.  They are not lasting and so, in that sense, they do not matter as much as we tend to think; but God does will that we represent Him well in this life.  Here is where we face the refiners fire and the temptations and stumbling blocks that teach of us our need to trust, to depend, on Him.  Being faithful in the little things means we can be trusted to be good stewards the big things.  How we live our lives, in the mundane, day to day, ordinariness of our lives is even a testimony to others regarding our thankfulness to God.  Do we believe we are only stewards of His material goods, His time, and even the talents He gives us?  Our lives testify to our answers.  Do we really believe that the Creator of all that is, seen and unseen, came down from heaven to make our eternal communion with Him possible?  The way we live our lives testifies to whether we truly and inwardly digest that understanding?  Are we redeemed people, both individually and as a group?  Do we live our lives joyfully, confidently, and full of that peace that passes all understanding, confident that our Father in heaven will reward us at the resurrection of the righteous?  The way we live our lives testifies to whether we have internalized that and every other teaching Jesus gave us!
     Brothers and sisters, I get that it’s hard.  The world tells you you deserve it your way today.  Every message outside these walls is one of immediate gratification and putting yourself first.  If that was all that there was, the world would be right.  But you and I know better.  We have been taught better.  And the One teaching is none other that the One who was raised from the dead, the Firstborn of the righteous.  The One who made it possible that we might share in His eternal glory is the One who teaches, who instructs us, that others might come to His saving embrace through the living of our lives.  And as an added bonus, as if eternal salvation were not enough for us, it is our Savior Jesus who promises that, if we live our lives in emulation of His, God Himself will exalt us!  At that Feast He promises for all His beloved children, we will all be moved to places of honor and celebrated for living our lives as He called and taught each one of us!  That, my brothers and sisters and fellow travelers on this journey of faith, is worth remembering not just on a Sunday of Labor Day weekend, but every day of our lives, whether we are bishops living in European castles, Popes running our own city, normal folks living in Nashville, or those whom society seems to have forgotten even if He has not!

In His Peace,
Brian†

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